This all sounds so exhausting when we try to conform to the oppressive restrictions and afflictions of some people/groups.

I choose to live authentically and not allow these antiquated traditions to push me into discomfort for display purposes.

Now that my breasts have grown to a very noticeable and solid handful I do experience what you’ve written about, especially since I often go out top free.

I’ve also noticed when I embrace my authenticity that I avert most adversity.

For-me, dressing a certain way to appease others is something I’ve intentionally given up on and feel so much better for.

Thanks for expounding this incisive social faction 🙏🦋💜

PS: from my limited experience, bras can be super uncomfortable, especially in warmer temperatures